Olajumoke Onibread Opens Up About Domestic Abuse That Derailed Her Career
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Olajumoke Orisaguna, famously known as “Olajumoke Onibread,” has shared her harrowing experience of domestic violence, revealing how it impacted her career and personal life.
Olajumoke gained fame in 2016 after accidentally walking into a photoshoot featuring British rapper Tinie Tempah, shot by renowned photographer TY Bello. Her story of transformation from a bread hawker to a model inspired many, but her sudden disappearance from the limelight left fans puzzled.
Speaking on City FM, Olajumoke opened up about the abusive relationship with her ex-husband, Sunday Orisaguna, and the challenges she endured during their marriage.
A Struggle Rooted in Abuse and Societal Stigma
Olajumoke revealed that the abuse started during their time in Ire, Osun State, where she also faced mistreatment from her mother-in-law. After relocating to Lagos to make a living, she met TY Bello, a chance encounter that launched her career.
However, her husband later joined her in Lagos, and the abuse continued. Despite her rising career, Olajumoke said societal pressure and the stigma of separation as a mother of two forced her to endure the toxic relationship for years.
“Even in the house rented for me in Surulere, he would still beat me up. I couldn’t admit to anyone that we were not properly married. I endured it all.”
The Downfall of Her Career
Olajumoke explained how Sunday’s actions after their separation derailed her career. She alleged that he tarnished her reputation and spoke ill of those who supported her success, leading to her gradual decline.
“When I separated from him, everything started going down the drain. He began spoiling my name and badmouthing the people who helped me.”
Despite being the sole breadwinner during their relationship, Olajumoke faced accusations of infidelity and constant monitoring, which made it difficult to focus on her career.
“He didn’t have a job. I was the one hustling to ensure my children didn’t suffer. Even after all that, he would accuse me of sleeping around whenever I worked late.”
A Message of Resilience
Now separated for nearly four years, Olajumoke says she is determined to rebuild her life despite the challenges she continues to face.
Her story sheds light on the silent struggles many endure due to societal expectations and serves as a call for support for victims of domestic abuse.